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I Don't Chase Potential, I Chase Peace: Dating Advice Part 1

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In this episode of Embrace the Journey, we dive deep into a pattern many of us know too well: dating someone not for who they are now, but for who we hope they’ll become. While vision and belief in someone's growth can be beautiful, it often blurs the line between love and a long-term project.

I share personal reflections and hard-earned lessons about the emotional toll of investing in potential over reality, the red flags we tend to excuse, and how this mindset can keep us in cycles of disappointment and self-abandonment. We’ll talk about what it looks like to choose partners who show up—not just promise to.

If you’ve ever found yourself waiting for someone to “get it together,” or staying in a relationship because “they could be so great if…”—this episode is for you.

🎙️ Tune in for real talk, clarity, and a reminder that love should meet you in the present, not a version of the future only you can see.

ETJ Website

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Want to share your JOURNEY? Apply here

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27 episodes

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Content provided by Alexis Forteza. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Alexis Forteza or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://player.fm/legal.

In this episode of Embrace the Journey, we dive deep into a pattern many of us know too well: dating someone not for who they are now, but for who we hope they’ll become. While vision and belief in someone's growth can be beautiful, it often blurs the line between love and a long-term project.

I share personal reflections and hard-earned lessons about the emotional toll of investing in potential over reality, the red flags we tend to excuse, and how this mindset can keep us in cycles of disappointment and self-abandonment. We’ll talk about what it looks like to choose partners who show up—not just promise to.

If you’ve ever found yourself waiting for someone to “get it together,” or staying in a relationship because “they could be so great if…”—this episode is for you.

🎙️ Tune in for real talk, clarity, and a reminder that love should meet you in the present, not a version of the future only you can see.

ETJ Website

Alexis' IG Page

Embrace The Journey Podcast IG page

Want to share your JOURNEY? Apply here

  continue reading

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